Our Philosophy

Relationships provide the cheapest form of financial, physical, and emotional well-being. They don't require a Ph.D to master, just a little time and mindfulness.

The Questions We Have Strived to Answer for the past 20 Years

  • If we all want healthy, happy, stable relationships, why do some relationships flourish while others falter?
  • Why do 45% of all marriages end in divorce?
  • Why are so many of the remaining couples disenchanted with their relationship?

Our answers are simple and practical, and many of them contradict advice offered in other self-help books and seminars.

As active scientists, we offer facts based on science and study, rather than just offer gimmicky or unproven advice that "sounds good." And as passionate university professors, we love to share what we have learned.

4 Key Premises


"It was nice knowing that the information I received at the seminar was based on decades of research. The case studies were really interesting."

"I never thought about the many ways my relationship influenced my life."

"I wish I had come to this years ago when my husband and I were still newlyweds."

"We spent months planning our wedding, but no time thinking about our relationship. This seminar helped us figure out a plan for our future."

"It was the best money we ever spent on us."

"I thought it was going to be a big therapy session. It was actually entertaining and the science behind the advice made me see the value in being there."